Have you got that friend or acquaintance that whenever you’re around or in touch with them you feel a huge drain on your energy? Do you have someone that always leaves you low and at your worst each time you connect? That is a psychic vampire!
It might not be as physically horrible as it sounds, but believe me it is very emotionally and psychologically damaging , just as bad or worse than being attacked by a vampire in real life. Most people in such relationships often end up depressed and emotionally dry. Just like narcissists they don’t really care, and it’s not purely their intention, but their nature.
How to know a psychic vamp?
Don’t confuse this with introversion. In fact introverts many times turn out to care most, and often share a lot of positive energy. How do you now know a psychic vamp? Check out for the most common signs below!
a. They always depend on your energy, not contributing any energy to the relationship.
b. You feel a mental drain, and depression throughout your time with them.
c. They don’t know how to care, or extend warmth to you. It’s not intentional but their true nature. They can hardly call or text to check on you, or even if you’re sick or down mentally, to provide support. But they love attention above everything else.
d. They never care to ask about your future plans, challenges, or progress, and whenever you bring up a discussion in that direction it bores them.
e. On your last birthday, did you have to remind them? Did they show enough care? Psychic vamps normally would not care, but on their special occasions you are expected to spend an arm and a leg to make them happy. It must not be all about money or gifts, someone can show that they care in many other ways.
f. They come and go, always showing up when you seem full of good vibes, then suddenly, they leave. Then after some time they show up again. Just like that, this cycle continues, and each time they leave you worried and depressed. Then you try and pick yourself up, the moment it seems you’ve recovered, they show up again! Just like that in cycles.
g. In business they always come to get ideas and resources from you, without giving anything in return, as a habit.
Do not judge anyone based on any single one of these, people come from different backgrounds and orientations, but when you start seeing these signs often, you need to watch it, guard your mind.
Be yourself, be careful. Don’t fall prey to a psychic vamp. Maintain good vibes and roll with people you like to grow with, in a mutual atmosphere. Beware of psychic parasites.
Feel free to share in the comments section if you’ve had any experience of this kind, help other people to keep mentally safe. Have a great week!