Dear all. I have a situation and it’s killing me everyday. Please do not blame me, as I have already had a stomachful of regrets and blames. I need advise now and my happiness and life depend on what I do next.
I love my boyfriend, he is cute and caring and every woman’s dream.
But last year he traveled to do a 6 months program in the UK.
One thing led to another and I got pregnant for his best friend, that normally visits us and goes out with him.
My guy is back to the Country now and I discovered last month that I am with child. I belong to a faith that strongly goes against abortion. It is not even an option.
I am running out of time, the signs are already manifesting. How do I open up to him without losing him?
I can’t imagine a life without this guy, but I am dying everyday that his friend’s child draws breath in me.
It’s understandable that you’re facing a difficult situation, but honesty is crucial for the well-being of everyone involved. Here’s a possible approach:
Sit down with your boyfriend in a calm and private setting. Start by expressing your love for him and your commitment to your relationship. Then, gently explain the situation, being honest about the pregnancy and how it happened. Acknowledge your regrets and emphasize your desire to work through this together.
Assure him that you understand the gravity of the situation and that you’re committed to finding a solution that respects both your faith and the well-being of the child. Be prepared for a range of emotions from him, including shock, anger, and sadness. Give him time to process the information and express his feelings.
Ultimately, the key is to communicate openly and honestly, while also being prepared to listen and understand his perspective. It won’t be easy, but facing the situation together will strengthen your bond and help you navigate the challenges ahead.