My GF of 2 years now, has a child from her previous relationship and hid it from me. Before we started I asked her about all of these and she swore that I knew everything about her. She has been humble and well behaved. I was very impressed and ready to take the next step.
Just last week I decided to pay a surprise visit to her parents. It happened that a classmate of hers was there, she was about leaving when I was driving in. The little girl they has introduced to me as my girlfriend’s cousin came out to open the gate. As the lady was about to drive out she tipped the girl and asked her about her mother (she mentioned my GF’s name). The girl replied that her mom had not yet returned from the city.
I was just waiting for the lady to drive out so I could drive in and I heard everything they said. I just turned and drove home. I feel betrayed.
She has been begging, but I don’t think I can ever trust her again if she could lie to me about something this important.
It might not be because of trust. As she don’t want to lose you, telling you of her child might bring you to leave her and so she doesn’t want to tell you
Besides what happen to coming out openly without fear of what might happen? Or maybe she just doesn’t want you to know about it
She might be someone you can trust or not.she might have told someone in her previous relationship that she’s with a child already and the guy having heard that left the girl and she decided not to tell you cause she does not want to lose you too but on the other hand she might be someone you cannot trust if she just hide it from you without any concrete reasons. Better you question her and ask her why she did that.
She might be someone you can trust or not.she might have told someone in her previous relationship that she’s with a child already and the guy having heard that left the girl and she decided not to tell you cause she does not want to lose you too but on the other hand she might be someone you cannot trust if she just hide it from you without any concrete reasons. Better you question her and ask her why she did that.